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The Welcome to Oz Online Community for Family Members with a 

Borderline Loved One


Join one of the listservs in our Welcome to Oz Online Community (WTO)  and meet new friends who know what you’re facing because they’ve been there too. There you’ll experience understanding, comfort, and tips that have worked for others

Randi Kreger, who manages this site and owns the groups, started WTO in 1995. Since then, 50,000 people have revolved through our community of online support groups. Many members joined when they knew nothing about BPD, and many members have been here for years. We’re open to all family members who understand our covenant and follow our all-important guidelines.

Many discussions on the community revolve around using the tools from Randi’s books "Stop Walking on Eggshells" and the “Stop Walking on Eggshells Workbook.” The people here are wonderfully supportive and can carry you through the good times and the bad.

Lisa is our Community List Manager and Moderator. In other words, she is in charge. Each day, she scans the groups to ensure that everything is running well; she’s also there to help her with list issues. Her name and email address is at the bottom of every post. If you have any concern at all about the way you group is going, please contact her with the specific problem.

Please scroll down these list and join the one(s) that look the best for you. Please read the instructions carefully. For confidentiality, we urge you to create a confidential e-mail address at www.hotmail.com or www.yahoo.com before subscribing. (Please do NOT use your real last name.) Depending upon the size of the list, we also suggest subbing to the digest unless you want 25-100 emails a day. 

One last thing: if you find these group helpful, please consider making a tax deductible donation of any size—even $1--to the Personality Disorders Awareness Network, which helps support this free service. The behind-the-scenes work we do costs several hundred dollars a month. You can find a donation link at the top half of the home page. Your help is more appreciated than you realize.

 Randi Kreger

WelcomeToOz2 & WelcomeToOz
These lists are for people who need support because they are coping with someone in their life who has borderline personality disorder (or traits of BPD). This can cause much anxiety, depression, confusion, isolation, etc. People on this list know what you're going through and are here to help! The WelcomeToOz list has become so large that we are encouraging new members to join the WelcomeToOz2 group instead.

To join WelcomeToOz2, send a blank email to WelcomeToOz2-subscribe@yahoogroups.com 
or visit our homepage at: http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/WelcomeToOz2 

To join the WelcomeToOz group, send a blank email to WelcomeToOz-subscribe@yahoogroups.com 
or visit our homepage at: http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/WelcomeToOz

WTOAdultChildren1
This group is for people age 18 and over who have or who had a parent with borderline personality disorder. To join this group, send a blank email to WTOAdultChildren1-subscribe@yahoogroups.com 
or visit our homepage at: http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/WTOAdultChildren1

WTOChristian
For people who prefer a Christian environment
Subscribe: WTOChristian-subscribe@yahoogroups.com 
or visit our homepage at: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/WTOChristian

WTOGLBT
For gay and lesbian members who only want to be with other GLBT members
Subscribe: WTOGLBT-subscribe@yahoogroups.com 
or visit our homepage at: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/WTOGLBT

WTOStaying
FOR those who prefer to be with those who are staying with their BP partner or spouse
Subscribe: WTOStaying-subscribe@yahoogroups.com 
or visit our homepage at: http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/WTOStaying

WTOTransition
For those ambivalent about staying with or leaving their BP partner or spouse
Subscribe: WTOTransition-subscribe@yahoogroups.com 
or visit our homepage at: http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/WTOTransition

WTODivorcing
For people who want to be with those who are divorcing their BP spouse
Subscribe: WTODivorcing-subscribe@yahoogroups.com 
or visit our homepage at: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/WTODivorcing

WTOCoparenting1
For people who are "co-parenting" with a BP 
Subscribe: WTOCoPparenting-subscribe@yahoogroups.com 
or visit our homepage at: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/WTOCoparenting1

WTOMenOnly
Subscribe: WTOMenOnly-subscribe@yahoogroups.com 
or visit our homepage at: http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/WTOMenOnly

WTOWomenOnly
Subscribe: WTOWomenOnly-subscribe@yahoogroups.com
or visit our homepage at: http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/WTOWomenOnly

WTOParentsOfBPs
For NON-BP parents of children (of any age) who may have BPD
Subscribe: WTOParentsofBPs-subscribe@yahoogroups.com
or visit our homepage at: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/WTOParentsOfBPs 

WTOGrandparents
For Non-BP grandparents whose grandchildren have a parent with BPD
Subscribe: WTOGrandparents-subscribe@yahoogroups.com
or visit our homepage at: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/WTOGrandparents

WTOSiblings
For Non-BP siblings of a person with BP
Subscribe: WTOSibling-subscribe@yahoogroups.com
or visit our homepage at: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/WTOSibling

WTOProfessionals
For clinicians and other health care professionals to discuss BPD. Membership is restricted to clinicians and other professionals working with the BPD population or the Non-BP population
Subscribe: WTOProfessionals-subscribe@yahoogroups.com
or visit our homepage at: http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/WTOProfessionals


 

 

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