Books  & Other Resources

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Materials for Partners

Eddy, W. A., Conflict Personalities: Understanding and Resolving Their Costly Disputes  (San Diego, CA: High Conflict Institute, 2003).  For attorneys assisting those divorcing HCP’s.
ISBN-10: 981509053 ISBN-13: 978-0981509051



Eddy, B., Don't Alienate the Kids! Raising Resilient Children While Avoiding High Conflict Divorce  (HCI Press: 2010).  
ISBN-10: 1936268035 ISBN-13: 978-1936268030



Kreger, R., and K. A. Williams-Justesen, Love and Loathing: Protecting Your Mental Health and Legal Rights When Your Partner Has Borderline Personality Disorder  (Milwaukee, WI: Eggshells Press, 2000).  Has some divorce material and info on helping the kids.
 



Kreger, R., and K. A. Williams-Justesen, Love and Loathing: Protecting Your Mental Health and Legal Rights When Your Partner Has Borderline Personality Disorder  (Milwaukee, WI: Eggshells Press, 2000).  Has some divorce material and info on helping the kids.
 



Kreger, R., and K. A. Williams-Justesen, Love and Loathing: Protecting Your Mental Health and Legal Rights When Your Partner Has Borderline Personality Disorder  (Milwaukee, WI: Eggshells Press, 2000).  Has some divorce material and info on helping the kids.
 



Eddy, W. A., Kreger, R., Splitting: Protecting Yourself While Divorcing a Borderline or Narcissist  (Oakland, CA: New Harbinger, 2010).  A must-have, five-star guide for divorcing a high conflict personality.
 



Thayer, E., and J. Zimmerman, The Co-Parenting Survival Guide: Letting Go of Conflict after a Difficult Divorce  (Oakland, CA: New Harbinger Publications, 2001).  
ISBN-10: 1572242450 ISBN-13: 978-1572242456



Hall, K. and Cook, M., The Power of Validation: Arming Your Child Against Bullying, Peer Pressure, Addiction, Self-Harm, and Out-of-Control Emotions  (Oakland, CA: New Harbinger, 2011).  Helps non-BP parents create a more nurturing environment for their children.
ISBN-10: 1608820335 ISBN-13: 978-1608820337



Eddy, W. A., Kreger, R., The Splitting CD: A Conversation with Bill Eddy About Divorcing a Borderline or Narcissist  (, WI: Eggshells Press, 2003).  The accompanying CD to the book
 



Johnston, J. R., K. Breunig, C. Garrity, and M. Baris, Through the Eyes of Children: Healing Stories for Children of Divorce  (New York: Free Press, 1997).  
ISBN-10: 068483703X ISBN-13: 978-0684837031



McKay, M., K. Paleg, P. Fanning, and D. Landis, When Anger Hurts Your Kids: A Parent’s Guide  (Oakland, CA: New Harbinger Publications, 1996).  
ISBN-10: 1572240458 ISBN-13: 978-1572240452



Lewis, K., and P. Shirley, You’re My World: A Non-BP’s Guide to Custody  (Milwaukee, WI: Eggshells Press, 2001).  A discussion with a mental health professional and children’s rights advocate.
 




Materials about children living in high conflict environments

Eddy, B., Don't Alienate the Kids! Raising Resilient Children While Avoiding High Conflict Divorce  (HCI Press: 2010).  
ISBN-10: 1936268035 ISBN-13: 978-1936268030


Kreger, R., and K. A. Williams-Justesen, Love and Loathing: Protecting Your Mental Health and Legal Rights When Your Partner Has Borderline Personality Disorder  (Milwaukee, WI: Eggshells Press, 2000).  Has some divorce material and info on helping the kids.
 


Kreger, R., and K. A. Williams-Justesen, Love and Loathing: Protecting Your Mental Health and Legal Rights When Your Partner Has Borderline Personality Disorder  (Milwaukee, WI: Eggshells Press, 2000).  Has some divorce material and info on helping the kids.
 


Hall, K. and Cook, M., The Power of Validation: Arming Your Child Against Bullying, Peer Pressure, Addiction, Self-Harm, and Out-of-Control Emotions  (Oakland, CA: New Harbinger, 2011).  Helps non-BP parents create a more nurturing environment for their children.
ISBN-10: 1608820335 ISBN-13: 978-1608820337


Johnston, J. R., K. Breunig, C. Garrity, and M. Baris, Through the Eyes of Children: Healing Stories for Children of Divorce  (New York: Free Press, 1997).  
ISBN-10: 068483703X ISBN-13: 978-0684837031


McKay, M., K. Paleg, P. Fanning, and D. Landis, When Anger Hurts Your Kids: A Parent’s Guide  (Oakland, CA: New Harbinger Publications, 1996).  
ISBN-10: 1572240458 ISBN-13: 978-1572240452



Materials about divorce and custody

Eddy, W. A., Conflict Personalities: Understanding and Resolving Their Costly Disputes  (San Diego, CA: High Conflict Institute, 2003).  For attorneys assisting those divorcing HCP’s.
ISBN-10: 981509053 ISBN-13: 978-0981509051


Kreger, R., and K. A. Williams-Justesen, Love and Loathing: Protecting Your Mental Health and Legal Rights When Your Partner Has Borderline Personality Disorder  (Milwaukee, WI: Eggshells Press, 2000).  Has some divorce material and info on helping the kids.
 


Eddy, W. A., Kreger, R., Splitting: Protecting Yourself While Divorcing a Borderline or Narcissist  (Oakland, CA: New Harbinger, 2010).  A must-have, five-star guide for divorcing a high conflict personality.
 


Thayer, E., and J. Zimmerman, The Co-Parenting Survival Guide: Letting Go of Conflict after a Difficult Divorce  (Oakland, CA: New Harbinger Publications, 2001).  
ISBN-10: 1572242450 ISBN-13: 978-1572242456


Eddy, W. A., Kreger, R., The Splitting CD: A Conversation with Bill Eddy About Divorcing a Borderline or Narcissist  (, WI: Eggshells Press, 2003).  The accompanying CD to the book
 


Lewis, K., and P. Shirley, You’re My World: A Non-BP’s Guide to Custody  (Milwaukee, WI: Eggshells Press, 2001).  A discussion with a mental health professional and children’s rights advocate.
 


 
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